Promoting Fatherhood? No, Seriously

Apparently, the concept of "fatherhood" is new in the United States--or at least, people are trying to redefine it. But what I can't figure out is, at what point does a "man," and society, wake up to discover that they are a father? A father, with REAL live responsibilities!!!

For decades "men" have evaded their familial responsibilities by leaving their children behind for their wives, ex-wives, girlfriends, sisters, and parents (to name a few, huh) to take care of. Men have left the city and left the state to avoid their financial obligations (aka child support).

And we women have been left behind with the children....Not that we MINDED, because we love our children THAT much (but we start with little to nothing, and they start from where they left off).

But now, it appears that "fathers" are having a reawakening and are stepping forward to claim their responsibilities (after realizing that their driver's licenses have been suspended, and their tax returns and pay garnished), all with the help of the U.S. government--courtesy of The Department of Health and Human Services, Responsible Fatherhood Program.

Oh no, don't think that's the only program. There are others.

What does the grant do to promote fatherhood? Does it give out condoms? Vasectomies? Do they hold parenting classes? Do they teach respect for women and children? Do they teach what child support monies cover?

Why does the government have to intervene on behalf of "fathers" for any reason?